This is an estimate for planning. It is not a quote, an appraisal, a loan offer, or tax or legal advice, and Rudy is a real estate agent, not a lender, attorney or tax professional.
The four paths in plain English
Sell first
You sell your first home, then shop knowing exactly what your equity turned into. Your buyer can let you stay a few weeks after closing, and a short-term rental bridges a longer search.
When owners often choose it: First-time sellers who need the sale money for the next down payment, which is most people trading up.
Tradeoffs: You might rent for a while between homes and move twice.
Same-day closings
After your buyer’s contingencies are removed, you offer on the next home without any sale condition, and both deals close the same day so your equity flows straight into the purchase.
When owners often choose it: Movers who want one moving day and no rent, with a buyer who can wait longer to close.
Tradeoffs: Your buyer accepts a longer escrow, and the two closings depend on each other.
Contingent offer
You write an offer that’s conditional on selling your current home, using C.A.R.’s COP addendum, and the sale and purchase close together.
When owners often choose it: Buyers who find the house first and a seller who is willing to wait.
Tradeoffs: Some sellers won’t take a contingent offer, especially with other bids in hand. The addendum sets how long you have and whether the seller can keep showing.
Buy first with equity
You tap your first home’s equity with a credit line set up before listing or a bridge loan, use it for the down payment, move in, and then sell. The sale pays off what you borrowed.
When owners often choose it: Owners whose home has gained enough value to borrow against, and who can afford two payments for a stretch.
Tradeoffs: Carrying both homes, interest and fees on the borrowed amount, and qualifying with a lender while you still own the first one.
Rent-backs: put it in writing
Want a little breathing room after your sale? Ask for a rent-back in the contract with your buyer. For 29 days or fewer, the C.A.R. Seller in Possession addendum (SIP) is common. At 30 days or more it becomes a Residential Lease After Sale (RLAS), with your buyer as your landlord, according to the San Diego Association of REALTORS®. The length is up to your buyer to accept.
Contingent offers
If you’d like your next offer to depend on your sale, C.A.R.’s COP addendum (June 2024 revision) is the standard tool. You and the seller fill in the number of days you get to sell, whether their home stays on the market and how a competing offer would be handled. Rudy will explain every choice.
Questions to ask your lender
- Can I qualify for the next loan while I still own my first home? Under Fannie Mae’s guide, both payments count until a signed buyer has cleared their financing contingencies.
- Is my equity enough for a home equity line, and should I open it before I list?
- Do you offer bridge loans, and what would one cost in my situation?
- How long can I lock a rate, and what happens if my closing date changes?
About these numbers
- The planner counts calendar days and flags weekend dates without moving them.
- After both closings each path leaves you with equal equity; the difference is the cash needed in between and the extra costs.
- Rent and payments are split by the day.
- Taxes on your gain are not included, so ask a CPA. Rates and loan approval come from your lender.
Questions owners ask
Do I have to sell my first home before buying the next one?
No. You can sell first, close both on the same day, make an offer that depends on your sale, or buy first with equity. The planner shows the dates and cash for each.
Will I have to move twice?
Only if the gap between closings runs longer than your rent-back. Same-day closings, a contingent offer and buying first usually mean one move.
How does my equity become my next down payment?
When your sale closes, escrow pays off your loan and selling costs and sends you the rest. On the same-day path it goes straight into the next purchase.
Can I still use a low down payment loan on my next home?
Plenty of loan programs aren’t limited to first-time buyers. Your lender can tell you which ones fit and how owning your current home affects qualifying.
Sources: Zillow Research home values, rents and days to pending (Sep 2026); Freddie Mac Primary Mortgage Market Survey (Oct 29, 2026); FRED bank prime loan rate (Oct 27, 2026); NAR 2025 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers (summary) (Dec 8, 2025); Freddie Mac: budgeting for upfront homebuying costs (Jun 4, 2025); California Civil Code 1675; CFPB: private mortgage insurance (Aug 28, 2023); CFPB: home equity lines of credit (Aug 28, 2026); Fannie Mae Selling Guide B3-6-06 (Sep 2, 2026); C.A.R. list of standard forms (Oct 30, 2026); San Diego Association of REALTORS®: post-closing occupancy (Aug 27, 2025). Your contracts, your lender and the county assessor have the final word on your own dates, loan and taxes.
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